We should care about their mental and emotional feelings before we decide their future.

We are in diverse world where everyone is longing for happiness , wealth  and lead a simple luxury life. We all have future and tries every kind of plan to make it look like exactly how we depiction it. Our dreams are about being heroes and outstanding  superstars of our generation. 

I have been talking to different people around me, friends and family members aged between 18-28 years old with different gender. Apparently most of them have already decided about their future plans  especially when they intend to get married,  have kids and lead there own families.

 

A big number of whom I've had a chance to talk with, they wanted to have kids  for themselves before they are engaged and got married, while others plans to make a family  before welcoming kids in the house.

The Majority are out there full of fear and terrified due to their insecurities and financial doubts. They thought  that there are enable to provide and protects their families. It's okay for us  to know what we are capable of doing and our boundaries. 

It's okay for you to raise your kids in a way you want him/her to be raised in but it's not okay for us as parents to make those kinds of decisions for them. Why would  you choose a parent to be raised by for him/her? 

Be aware of that You will be able to provide for him/her physically, with money to cover all her basic needs but not emotionally. Have you ever considered about his/her mental wellness?what about emotional  feelings? You won't be able to cover this part!

We all got choices to make in our lives and that make us feel confident and and capable of leading our lives. Whether we are taking advantage on them in their absence. We are just focused on how to make wealth with none to pressuring us, asking about how we are going to manage and share our gained paychecks. 

Hello guys  let's make a change. we just have to learn first how to take all responsibilities  without  sacrificing their joy of growing in a complete family.  We don't have to make them feel the warmth of only one parent. Let them be educated, disciplined and be cared by both parents because every one of you contributes differently in a family.  If u are unable  of that don' t bother looking for them.Kids wants to feel loved from his/her mum dad and it's their rights.