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Make your dreams come true. 10Supreme keys to turn your dreams into reality.
Let me tell you about ten keys designed to open our front dream doors. It's a response to how I can achieve my dreams. 10keys I'm about to offer, will help you to wake up from dreams and run into the reality. Windows are wide open here and everything will be clear, when you choose to use a key respective to its lock.
1. Make your dreams known. Most of us are not familiar with this. we dreamt about something and keep it for ourselves. We prefer to talk and discuss our dreams with ourselves. Repeat NO after me, this should change. Is there anybody who is going to sold you a house when he never known that u are in need of one or planning to buy it? No one is with ability to access your untold plans and thoughts. So it's good to have a dream and better to proclaim what you dreamt about. Tell them what you plan to do, what you want to have, who you wish to be and where you would like to be. Talk about your dreams, because it's a door to be opened for your future opportunities, success and support.
2. Level up. Connect yourself to people with different social class with yours. We tend to chat and befriend with people we share same ideas, age group, responsibilities and swagger. Finest example, look at your friends and group them, you will find something like what I've found. Many of my friends are the one within the same class as me. It's hard to find someone in his/her 20ties befriending with 50years old except in parenting. Tho' that's what I want you to learn ( be careful for who you want to connect with, Choose wisely). Go and connect with someone who can challenge your ideas, people with different experiences whom you can learn from, people who can help you to build your mind projection, people who can encourage and support you rather than staying with people with similar minds, ideas, same life experiences, and common understanding. Leave your comfort circle and run for challenges to shape your dreams and determination. Move yourself into different angles for better cultivation.
Wake up from your dreams and try to make everything happen. Life isn't easy but when you work for what you want you will receive what you worked for. I think we have got to know what to be done if we want accomplish what we dream about. Make your dreams shine and colour your life. Want to read more about how to make your dreams come true. Answer to be found in these books.
#making your dreams come true by wieder, Marcia.
# how to make your dreams come true by Mark Forster.
Our past. Our story .Our treasure.
Our lives were never easy especially to me because I had to travel with baby every day at night to stay with my mum who was studying in a day and spent her night working in the hospital. I was studying my primary 2 and had a responsibility to care &carry baby back home in every morning before clock stricks 7:30am to miss my opening class bell ring.
Joyfully, my 10th birthday was celebrated at the hospital. I had friends who were doctors and my mother's coworkers at hospital who prepared gifts for my day. They asked me different questions to win over their gifts and were surprised that I could respond &think of something that can’t be thought by other kids at my age. Day after day they started to call me “genie” means genius.
I’ve had many hardships, struggles, misfortunes, and sometimes I had to do something that I’ve ever hated to do. Though now looking back, I cherish every moment & second I’ve spent in my past. Because my past is where I acquired every kind of knowledge and skills I retrieve for use today. It’s where I’ve been shaped, molded and colored into someone I am today.
Our past is our most treasure we’ve got to guard. Even if it’s composed of our rise &falls, happiness &sufferings, gains &loss, love &hate and everything which leaves bruises on our heart and body, but also it's our stock that will never run out. It will always be there for us to provide and help with our logical thinking, decision making, strategies to be used and path to be taken.
It is a foundation of our goals &dreams, achievements &depiction, emotions and feelings.Never quote your past as shame or loss, because it’s there to shape YOU not to define YOU. Value it and learn from it."YOUR PAST WAS NEVER YOU".
Life tips. Alway try to respect others privacy.
1. Play good in friendship. Do not care if a person care as much as you do in relashionship at the moment. Sometimes we expect to receive the same kind of care and time as we give, but forget that everyone is dealing with different situation as us. So let us be considerate, call and talk to them if you got a chance, don't tell them that they despised you, just ask them if there are okay because that is what it's important.
2. Respect different shades of opinions. Everyone has got his /her way of understanding that's why what you think is right others may think that is wrong. Remember that 6 will appear 9 to someone facing you. Besides, second option is good for alternative.
3. Don't ask awkward questions. some people love to ask questions like "ooh so you are not married yet? "Or don't you have kids? or why didn't you buy a house? Where have you parked your car? What is your brand car? For godsake it isn't you business.
4. It's better to pay for taxi when your friend pays last time when you were with him . If she pays for the food today try to reciprocate the kindness next time. It's for better in friendship.
5. Dont call someone more than twice continuously. Sometimes we thought that if we call them many times they will respond while they didn't and If they didn't pick it up we presume that they don't care but it's better to postulate that they have something important to attendd to. Just don't make fuss from it.
6. Remember to return money you've borrowed even before the other person ask for it from you. This is the simple act which shows your integrity and character. Same goes with umbrella, pen, lunch boxes, suit and other borrowed materials.
7. Never order expensive dish on the menu when someone is giving you a lunch/ dinner. Many people thought that this is a kind of civilization to be presented but it's not. If possible ask them to order their choice of food for you.
8. It's not good to interrupt people who are talking. When you happen to find yourself in this situation, just allow them to pour it out. Set your seat aside and provide a space for the conversation. Always remember to respect other people's privacy.
9. There is almost never a reason to comment on someones weight. It's not that important to ask a friend you meet why they can't eat low? Why they can't just attend a morning run to decrease weight. You can just say that they look fantastic. If they want to talk about losing weight, they will.
10. If you tease someone and they don't seem to enjoy it, stop it and never do that again. We love to joke and tease with the person we love but sometimes that get offensive. It's better to let this off it it affects the person you are teasing. When you respect this, it can shows how understand and considerate you are.
11. Always remember to say thank you when someone is helping you. Don't forget to be thankful to everyone who is doing something for you.
12. Praise publically and criticize privately. Many of us forget to follow this but it's better if we respect other people as they respect us in return.
13. Do not give advice until you are asked. We rush to speak and never attend to listening and that's places our reasoning on low peak and be hard to provide or reasonable advice. So let's try to provide ideas when we are asked to give one.
14. Never talk you riches in the midst of poor. Similarly, don't talk about children in amidst of barren or talk about your spouses around those ones who don't have. This is a kind of offense and many people fail control their kind of speech but it's better if we stay cautious about what we say before we say it.
15. Remove your sunglasses if you are talking to anyone directly. This is the sign of showing respect and honor. Same goes to the cap. Moreover note that you should keep eye contact when you are talking to someone.
16. Mind your business unless anything involves you directly. Try to work on your things and remove yourself from other people's privacy. Don't talk about things which doesn't concern you unless you are asked for a hand in a situation. Manage to stay out of other people's privacy.
17. When meeting someone after long time, unless they want to talk about it don't ask them their age, salary. When we meet with a friend after a long period we got thrilled and fail to control what we should say to them, but it's better to provide comfortable environment to be in while you are together.
18. When someone shows a photo on their phone, don't swipe left or right. You never know whats next. Please try to show a respect to the person you are with. I will say it again respect other people' a privacy.
19. Starting at your phone when someone is speaking to you directly is rude. Try to make an eye contact with the person you are talking with. Do things that you would like others to do for you .
20. Treat people equally. CEO as the same as cleaner. Nobody is impressed at how rude you can treat someone below you, but people will notice it you treat them with respect.
21. If a colleague tells you they have a doctors appointment, don't ask what it's for, simply say few words like " I hope you are okay." Don't put them in an uncomfortable position of having to tell you their illness. If they want you to know, they will do so without your inquisitiveness.
22. Always open a door for the person behind you. It doesn't matter if is a guy or girl, senior or junior. You don't grow small by treating someone well in public.
Let's conclude this by saying that we should always try respect others privacy, act when you are asked to and minimise offense as much as you can.
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