Marriage is a formal union between two people that establishes rights and obligations to unites their lives legally, economically, spiritually and emotionally. Most of people start to think and plan about marriages in their 2nd decade.
This is the period where everyone is busy planning &deciding their dreams &goals, career to be pursued, and the road to be taken to achieve what they desire. In early twenties we start to look for a way to make a bunch of notes, a woman/ man of our dreams, falling in love and lie ourselves that notes and love are enough for us to plan out our marriage.
Globally, the divorce rate has more than doubled, from 2.6 divorces for every 1,000 married people to 5.5. Those results are averaged across all the regions of the world that were studied 2019.The most appearing reasons for marriage end in divorce are infidelity, insecurity, addiction,abuses, communication problems and incompatibility.
Talking about incompatibility, it's like a kind of ignorance in marriage. Because we should take time to study our compatibility with our partners before deciding our marriage. It's better to get to know our boy/girlfriend's strengths &weaknesses, goals &dreams, social & secret behaviours, abilities &boundaries, hates and likes during courtship instead of being blinded by love, because marriage is something bigger than that.
Is there any astounding doctor or engineer we know who never learnt to pursuit his/ her career? why not marriage? That is a big decision we took in our lives, which almost affect a half(1/2) of our lifetime. why do we always want to be heroes and heroines in our family, while we never took time to learn about how to achieve that?
We always dream about living in romantic lives with our spouses, but never learn how to make our matrimony lovesome before or in our marriage. We thought that our love will covers everything and that restrain us from our responsibility of learning about marriages and relationships.
Marriage is another lesson we should give our time to learn and read from different books for the reasons of acquiring knowledge and skills to make it efficacious. Marriage is a decision to be made when you are mentally and emotionally stable, financially secured and socially settled for making it a success. "Let us learn from others experiences to secure our marriages".