How Significant Sadness can be!

Once was held captive by sadness. I was cold...encaged in strong foiled bars cage I couldn't bring myself to escape from. The surface was covered by mist every dawn which alternates with darkness every dust, neither sun nor moon to be seen. My eyes had long forgotten what brightness can be as I couldn't recall what light was. The heartaches every second my head replayed the moments I've had long ago. Sadness had already conquered every inch of that nonstop beating muscle.

Sadness is a part of life we never got to choose but bound to reveal how strong It could bring heroes down. In two models of sadness, one is useless and another could build a new strong personality that can't be acquired in endless happiness. The useless one is brought by not being able to accept and compel with the facts we already knew its existence. Like how people die, experiencing setbacks, etc.

In life, if your feeding spoon is broken into pieces life is supposed to continue. None among us has asked to live the life she/he is living now. That's why it's not up to us to end it whenever/ wherever we yearn. The is one and the only right path to walk which is living. as long as you have air to breathe in & out, even on a hard-paying oxygen generator plant know that the only proper door left for you in this life is living.

Above 90% world's population believes that long-lasting sadness and hardships bring nothing good in our lives despite harming one's life but I want to drop these positive hard-earned reasons from long-lasting sadness based on my experience and different researches done by different psychologists including popular one called Rick Hanson from Canada who wrote many books related to how people react to what happens to them.

People who have been experiencing long-lasting sadness and escape from its destructive hands come to be more prudent and shaped in a way they could excavate most of the tricks used in manipulation.  Moments of sadness are experienced to provide them with enough time of concentration to build a new brain capacity of paying attention to every detail and analyze each step made. Unfortunately, this capacity can't be acquired in endless happiness. It is by taking the unpaved way of sadness one could climb to this level.

Sadness shapes someone into a new refined element. It waters seeds of a sense of responsibility to bloom. It teaches someone about how to differentiate what's more important to be taken care of in our daily life. It's never easier for a happier person to enumerate if what he/she does ere unimportant. We all know that people who laugh frequently are the coolest ones but forgot that they could do that unreasonably. Talking millions of words, engaging in unproductive contention, hanging out with friends every weekend... Those are things which are not much important but rank a higher position in our daily life. So, sadness plant the seed of a sense of importance that bears the fruit of resonance after escaping its sprouting period.

Friedrich Nietzsche's quote states that "what doesn't kills you makes you stronger". This saying is most applicable to the people who experienced hardships. Many of us thought that sadness can always hold someone's step of moving forward to grow stronger to achieve something great in life but it's not. Sadness refines us into people who wake up in the morning, motivate ourselves by giving more than hundreds of reasons of standing back on our feet, to set and achieve a tremendous life. It reshapes us into a fearless soldier who escaped years of mist' dawn and lingering dust' darkness. The saddest people are the strongest.

Sadness gives one new talent and the capacity of trying to feel and stand in others' shoes to understand their sufferings. Survivors of loneliness and open-eyed cold nights acquire empathy this hard way. These people are the one who understands others and make an effort to guides to exit doors of sufferings we endure daily. 

I call upon you to allow yourself to acquire positivity in the sufferings we experience daily.  Don't allow yourself to suffer for anything. Try to learn to accept facts of life that await anyone among 7.9 billion living under heaven. Because if it's not you today it can be you tomorrow. Life is an unending circle, better to fly as it revolves.