Things woman expect to get from a man but will never get.

One morning she wakes up feeling like entire world is on her shoulder. She was feeling so helpless and desperate at the same time. She wanted someone to hearken her, and provide some  guidance in handling the situation. She thought to call her man for jaw unfortunately, the man was on his way to work. He told her to wait until twilight after work, certainly he was going to have an on the go day. Young female phoned the man again at nightfall and responded that he is goofing off with  friends and guaranteed to talk to her the next dawn.

The girl waited the whole night till daylight. The call was received in the morning, asking her if she is fine and she says that it's okay despite something bothering her at moment. The guy inquired about the thing and she responded how she feels miserable and thought she is losing. He replied in few words saying that everything will be okay, and told her that he has got a plenty of work to do and should get going. 

The girl thought that James(guys' name) doesn't give him enough time to listen to her distress. she got anxious and decided to never tell him what's going on with her life again. She began to feel unloved and later took decision of leaving a relationship with James. Eventually She joined a new relationship with another guy who worked across her office. In the beginning they seem get close and talks much but as day goes on the guy begun to act like James. He could no longer enjoy extended conversation with the girl. Ostensibly The girl started to realize the sameness of both guys.

There are things women always expect to get from men but will never get. women should know that we are different from men, especially when it comes to relationships. Women cares and loves in a way different from how man does. Sometimes we wish our feelings to be reciprocated in a way we give in while it's different. Most of the time women thoughts and actions seem to be weird in the eyes on man. That's why I've bring you some of the differences between women and man especially when it comes to relationship to prepare you for unpleasant amazement you could get in a way.

Naturally women are born talkers. They like to talk on everything not because they deserve a comment but because they feel to. Guys don't understand that. They are like " why would she always talk about everything!" They can't understand how we do this but guys should know that it's their nature. Women love to be taken care of, to have someone to listen to her every story and feelings she got. It's better for guys to cope with this personality and tries to help their women. Just give them time to listen and provide the help she want from you.

On  contrary men are different from women c's they are absolutely silent. Simply they don't talk about everything. They speak less even if they deserve to be listened to as women do. So girls try to understand why he can't talk to you in a way you think he should. He is just not like you. When you tell him 100 words he will respond in 10  words. That's how they are. Be understanding when you thought about how he talks to you. Let him be a man and be yourself... Woman.

Man handle situations in a way differ from woman. Jessy leads a transport company called Mperla. She met with another woman whom is not on  good terms with her in board meeting and was surprised to find herself wearing the same dress. She returned from work anxiously to tell her husband how bad she looked wearing the same dress as her opponents' in the board meeting. She was mad and talks as much as she can. Her husband listen to her question and immediately tells her not to wear that dress again. Men are quick to react to situation and are born with that capacity, while women first replay about how things are, invest their emotions in situation and think hard to get to what she wants. Our solutions comes after everything. So please don't expect your man to pass through the same steps. 

Feelings are expressed differently between men and women. Women tend to care and express love directly while men may seem not to care. Most of the time women claim about the care she is receiving . I had a friend who would always plead about her boyfriend. She could be sad whenever her man tells her that he won't be able to attend to her calls a whole day. She couldn't understand how busy her man would be to never return the call whenever she needs to talk to him. This kind of complain is on the first list on most women's complaints list but I want to remind you that your man would never be able to go for your every minute call. Men needs time to do their jobs, concentrate on creating their future its always disruptive to attend to your non stop calls. Please be understanding and don't forge his absence into cheating or force them to do what's seem unproductive accept them and drive their way to change.

About how he handle situations might seem so special and unjust in the eyes of women . Men reacts and respond quickly to every situation thrown to them. Some time this seem to be unjust or impulsive decision to be made and you think he would change that. Normally there are not being impulsive. If you complain about your dress at home while he has been saving money for your shoes , he will directly decide to buy you a dress you've been complaining about without thinking about the shoes he was about to buy. They just want to end problems in short period as possible. They hate being troubled repetitively by he same matter. So if your husband or boyfriend is acting this way please don't force him to be reasonable like you . No learn to live in his world and allow him to add you in his decision making process. That would be more productive that accusing him to react on impulse.

Reaction to surprise will be always different. Men like gifts But please don’t expect the same reaction you would have because You will never see that. Men are not going to go to pieces and cry because you brought home a gift or planned a special trip or put together a nice, romantic surprise dinner for them. that's well not very manly. Said Steven Harvey.

In a nut shell men are emotionally different to women. You could ask yourself why but  it's a hell how they are made. Always they want simple things which will not cost their manhood, never-ending attention, and their faces. Men are simple but don't expect to get same reaction and actions from them as women c's it's not happening. Let them be men and be yourself"women".