Life tips. Alway try to respect her/his privacy.

I've got a chance to meet with different people, and grow in a society that exposed me to learn different important things in life. Every society has got its social etiquette and guidelines to follow  that helps people to fall in the same line of understanding. On the flip side there are other things that are not recorded in any social custom but requisite in our daily lives, that's why I've tried to collect 22 life tips that can help us to create a harmonious innocuous atmosphere every where with everybody. 

1. Play good in friendship. Do not care if the person care as much as you do in relashionship at the moment. Sometimes we expect to receive the same kind of care and time we provide, but forget to notice that everyone is dealing with different situation from us. So guys  let us try to be considerate. call and talk to them if you got a chance,  don't tell them that they despised you, just ask them if there are okay because that is what it's more important.

2. Respect different shades of opinions. Everyone has got his /her way of understanding things, that's why sometimes what you think is right others may take it as wrong. Remember that 6 will appear 9 to someone facing you. Besides, second option is good for alternative.

3. Don't ask awkward questions. some people love to ask questions like  "ooh so you are not married yet? "Or don't you have kids? or why didn't you buy a house? Where have you parked your car? What is your brand car? For godsake it isn't you business. Try to ask things which can be beneficial between you and your dude.

4. It's better to pay for taxi when your friend pays for last time ride when you were with him . If she pays for the food today try to reciprocate the kindness next time. It's for better in friendship.

5. Dont call someone more than twice continuously. Sometimes we thought that if we call them many times they will respond while they can't  and  If they don't  pick it us, we presume that they don't care anymore, but it's better to postulate that  they have something important to attendd to. Just don't make fuss from it.

6. Remember to return money you've borrowed even before  other person ask for it from you. This is the simple act which shows your integrity and character. Always work hard to keep your promise. Same goes with umbrella, pen, lunch boxes, suit and other borrowed materials.

7. Never order expensive dish on the menu when someone is giving you a lunch/ dinner. Many people thought that this is a kind of civilization to be presented but it's not. If possible ask them to order their choice of food for you.

8. It's not good to interrupt people who are talking. When you happen to find yourself in this situation, just allow them to pour it out. Set your seat aside and provide a space for the conversation. Always remember to respect other people's privacy.

9. There is almost never a reason to comment on someones weight. It's not that important to ask a friend you meet with why they can't eat low? Why they can't just attend a morning run to decrease weight. You can just say that they look fantastic and If they want to talk about losing weight, they will.

10. If you tease someone and they don't seem to enjoy it, stop it and never do that again. We love to joke and tease with the person we love but sometimes that seem offensive. It's better to let this off it it affects the person you are teasing. When you respect this, will reveal how understand and considerate you can be.

11. Always remember to say thank you when someone is helping you. Don't forget to be thankful to everyone who is doing something for you.

12. Praise publically and criticize privately. Many of us forget to follow this, but it's better if we respect other people as expect the respect  in return.

13. Do not give advice until you are asked. We rush to speak and never attend to listen and that's places our reasoning on low peak and be hard to provide or reasonable advice. So let's try to provide ideas when we are asked to give one.

14. Never talk your riches in the midst of poor. Similarly, don't talk about children in amidst of barren or talk about your spouses around those ones who don't have one. This is a kind of offense and many people fail control this kind of speech but it's better if we stay cautious about what we say before we speak it.

15. Remove your sunglasses if you are talking to anyone directly. This  is the sign of showing respect and honor. Same goes to the cap. Moreover note that you should keep an eye contact when you are talking to someone.

16.  Mind your business unless anything involves you directly. Try to work on your things and remove yourself from other people's privacy. Don't talk about things which doesn't concern you unless you are asked for a hand in a situation. Manage to stay out of  other people's privacy.

17. When meeting someone after long time, unless they want to talk about it don't ask them their age, salary and status. When we meet with a friend after a long period we got thrilled and fail to control what we should say to them, but it's better to provide with a  comfortable environment to be in while you are together.

18. When someone shows a photo on their phone, don't swipe left or right. You never know whats next. Please try to show a respect to the person whom you are with. Know what's important rather than acquiring news which were never your to start with. I will say it again respect other people's  privacy.

19. Staring at your phone when someone is speaking to you directly is rude. Try to make an eye contact with the person you are talking with. Do the things  you would like  to be done by others on you.

20. Treat people equally. CEO as the same as cleaner. Nobody is impressed at how rude you can treat someone below you, but people will notice it you treat them with respect.

21. If a colleague tells you they have a doctors appointment, don't ask what it's for, simply say few words like " I hope you are okay." Don't put them in an uncomfortable position of having to tell you their illness. If they want you to know, they will do so without your inquisitiveness.

22. Always open a door for the person behind you.  It doesn't matter if is a guy or girl, senior or junior. You don't grow small by treating someone well in public.

Let's conclude this by saying that we should always try respect other people's privacy, act when you are asked to, and minimise offense you can cause as much as you can.